The holiday season is not only a time for festive decorations, delicious treats, and exchanging gifts but also a popular time for couples to take their relationship to the next level through engagements. If you find yourself basking in the glow of a recent engagement during this magical Christmas season, congratulations! As you embark on this exciting journey, here are 5 super helpful post-engagement tips to ensure a smooth transition into the next chapter of your lives.
I'm engaged! What do I do now?
1. ENJOY THE MOMENT
Okay, seriously, can we talk about how awesome it is to be engaged? It's like a constant happiness glow-up! Enjoy it, soak it in, and bask in the love bubble that's just you two. If you're feeling extra, book a weekend getaway to keep the good vibes flowing. This is YOUR time to be all mushy and in love, so savour every second!
2. SHARE THE NEWS
I know you're dying to share all the details on social media, but slow down! First things first – call the family and your ride-or-die friends. No texts allowed, we're talking phone calls or, better yet, in-person visits. Trust me, Aunt Sue will appreciate hearing the news before scrolling through Instagram. Once the VIPs are in the know, then you can unleash the engagement fireworks on social media. Get ready for that flood of congrats!
"Wrapped up in the warmth of Christmas lights and the love in your eyes, I said 'Yes' to forever."
3. ENGAGEMENT PARTY EXTRAVAGANZA
Hold up on the wedding planning, and let's throw a party! Whether it's an intimate dinner, a backyard BBQ, or a full-on bash, celebrate the heck out of this engagement. It's not just a party; it's a chance to introduce your future spouse to the crew. And hey, if a party isn't your vibe, there are other ways to mark the moment – like a family meal or a cosy dinner with your besties.
4. DREAMY WEDDING TALKS
Time to get real about the wedding. Forget about assumptions; let's align those visions! Both of you get a say in this – it's not a one-person show. Grab a notepad, jot down your dreams, and have an open, honest chat. Compromise is key, and yeah, it might take a couple of heart-to-hearts, but by the end, you'll be on the same page and ready to rock that dream wedding.
"Under the mistletoe, in the glow of Christmas magic, we embarked on a journey of love and commitment. Here's to our forever."
5. HOLD UP ON THE WEDDING PLANNER MODE
I know, I know – you're itching to dive into wedding planning mode. But hang on, take a chill pill, and enjoy being engaged. Sure, peek at venues and suppliers, but don't go full throttle just yet. This is YOUR time, and no one should be rushing you. When the moment feels right, and you're ready to commit time, energy, and a bit of cash to the cause, that's when you dive into the wedding planning adventure.
"This Christmas, the best gift wasn't under the tree; it was the one who got down on one knee."
So, there you have it – the lowdown on post-engagement awesomeness. Take it slow, enjoy the ride, and get ready for the most epic adventure of your lives. May your Christmas engagement be the start of a lifetime filled with love, laughter, and countless shared moments.
Until next time...
